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relationship challenge Archives - Sonya Kim: Now and Forever Celebrancy Services

Through thick and thin

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It’s tough being in relationship with someone, even if it’s the one you love. Inevitably there will be ups and downs in life and this is why the marriage vows emphasise being there for each other in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer.

In a relationship workshop I attended with my now Hubby early on, the first teaching was that we are not perfect and so we should not expect perfection from each other. It set us up well! The book that encapsulates this concept poetically is ‘Perfect Love, Imperfect Relationships’ by John Welwood.

The Hakomi HEART training is focused on mindfulness and compassion for yourself and your partner. I trained in HEART and I include what I learned in my Celebrancy+ packages to help couples find an even deeper emotional understanding of themselves and each other in marriage.

The same old fights

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Have you heard of Esther Perel? She’s a psychotherapist famous for her TED talks on sex but I love her podcast about relationships, ‘Where should we begin?’

There is great reading relevant to couples having the same old fights. It turns out that the fights we have with our partners are often not about them but us.

What’s promising is that once we understand ourselves, we’re not forever bound by our patterns if we work to create new positive ones with our partners. It’s another reminder to me that relationships need work but they are so rewarding.

I’d be so happy to work with you and your partner on your wedding ceremony and help you understand the same old fights. Please let me know if you’re interested!